My Lessons In Leadership

As we transition into the cooler months of fall, many churches have begun the election process for new leaders for the upcoming year. This time of year prompts reflection on the lessons in leadership I’ve learned through my service to the Lord.

Be Humble

My first leadership role was as secretary for my local youth group, where I learned that leadership extends beyond administrative tasks. I once faced criticism for being first in line at a youth event, which seemed trivial at the time. However, this experience reminded me of Mark 9:35, where Jesus teaches that true greatness comes from being a servant. 

“Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, ‘Anyone who wants to be first must be the very last, and the servant of all’” (Mark 9:35).

Prior to this verse, the disciples were arguing about who among them was the greatest (verse 33). As you read Mark chapter 9, Jesus predicts and speaks about His impending death, yet the disciples were focused on worldly greatness.

To lead effectively, we must adopt a humble attitude and prioritize serving others over seeking recognition.

Pray

Prayer is fundamental in leadership, acting as a direct line to our divine Boss. It’s essential to incorporate prayer into daily routines—before meals, during commutes, and amidst the chaos of life. As a working mother, I often engage in “microwave prayers” while driving, finding those moments to be deeply intimate with Jesus. 

John 15:5 states, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me, you can do nothing.”

This verse emphasizes our dependence on Him: apart from Him, we can do nothing. Connecting with God is vital for effective leadership.

Love

Theodore Roosevelt once said, “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” Building genuine relationships is crucial for effective leadership. Take the time to smile, check in on others, and celebrate their joys or offer prayers during their struggles. I remember names by associating them with others I know, which fosters deeper connections. Love transcends language barriers; simple gestures like hugs or sharing homegrown vegetables can convey warmth and care. Remember to love those you lead.

Delegate and Empower

Exodus 18:13-26 highlights the importance of delegation. Moses was overwhelmed by his responsibilities until his father-in-law advised him to delegate tasks to capable representatives. Many leaders, like Moses, may struggle to trust others with responsibilities, but it’s vital to empower those around you. Identify and utilize the talents within your community—whether it’s decorating, teaching, or event planning. Recognizing and nurturing the spiritual gifts of others fosters a collaborative environment and enriches the ministry.

The Spirit of Leadership

In Numbers 27:18-23, God instructs Moses to pass leadership to Joshua, described as having “the spirit of leadership.” Before this, I hadn’t considered leadership as a distinct spiritual gift. Understanding that leadership can be a divine calling encourages us to seek and cultivate this spirit in ourselves and others.

Use Your Spiritual Gifts

Time is fleeting, and it’s crucial to utilize the spiritual gifts God has bestowed upon us. Each gift is meant to serve His kingdom and contribute to the collective ministry. Just as no one keeps a gift wrapped on a shelf, we should actively engage in using our spiritual gifts. Our purpose is to worship and serve, reflecting God’s glory in our actions.

In conclusion, as we enter this season of leadership transitions, let’s embrace humility, prioritize prayer, foster love, delegate effectively, recognize the spirit of leadership, and actively use our spiritual gifts. By doing so, we not only grow as leaders but also enrich our communities, reflecting the heart of Christ in our service.

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Eda Vang (N. Tshuaj Kaus Vaaj)

Eda M. Vang (Nam Tshuaj Kaus Vaaj)  has been married to Kao Vang for 24 years and is a mother of four. They currently reside in sunny Southern California. For the past 20 years, she has served in various Alliance Women positions at her local church and is currently the Alliance Women president at The New Vine Alliance Church of the C&MA in Hemet, California. She received a Bachelor’s in Social Sciences and a Master’s in Education with a focus on Curriculum and Instruction. She currently works as an elementary school teacher and is a part-time professor at the University of Massachusetts Global. She enjoys hiking, traveling, cooking and writing during her free time.